hi i am so sorry with all the holidays and kyles bday it was so hard to remember evrything. but I hope you had a greta day in heaven as well> and we all hope your family had a blessed holiday!! and hope you all made it thru yet another holiday without your loved one. i know it was very hard on our end....
Beverly,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Son Harley.
I too, lost my beautiful son Timothy James DaSilva in a sudden accident on July 15, 2006.
Every second of everyday I miss him terribly, the pain is unberable most times, I totally understand what you have gone through, when I was reading what you wrote about your Son, it made me cry because most of what I read is exactly how I have been feeling since that horrible moment when I got the telephone call with the worst news of my life.
Also, I would like to thank you for lighting a candle for my Son at my daughter's memorial.
If you like please visit the memorial that I am working on at:
http://timdasilva.virtual-memorials.com/
I found this a couple of months ago and I would like to dedicate it to You from your Son:
"Mom,
Please listen to me, as I take time to write...
I see parents struggling daily. Their pain is such a fight...
All of us who have gone on, and left the rest of you behind...
We're ok, Mom, I promise. Heaven is beautiful, and God is kind.
You used to tell me that one day, God would call and take you home.
You told me you'd make me strong, so I would stand tall when alone.
But things happen sometimes, Mom... That does not go in our plans.
I wasn't scared, Mom, When God held out his hand.
I didn't want to leave you... I didn't have time to say good bye...
When the angels said, "Come with us.", There wasn't time to question why.
I've watched you daily, Mom. It hurts to see you cry.
I don't want you to be unhappy. Just because we didn't get to say good bye.
Tell the others what I'm telling you, so many parents need to know...
That Earth was just a lay over... We had another place to go.
I know you miss me, Mom I know your heart is broken in two,
But God really needed me, Because my earthly life was through.
I'm always alongside you...
I smile and touch your hair.
I whisper "Mom, I love you",
You just can't see me there.
I'm the one who gently touches you, On your shoulder when you're sad.
I'm happy now that you finally found God again, and are no longer mad.
Tell the parents, Mom, for me...
That all of us kids are okay. God had plans for our lives...
When he called us home that day.
I love you, Mom, I always will...
And remember I'm not far away.
We're going to be together...
When God calls out your name,
Love your Son"
HI. MY NAME IS DANIELLE AND WE TOO WERE IN A TERRIBLE ACCIDENT ON 3/18/06. THERE WERE SIX OF US AS WELL. AND MY BROTHER WAS IN THE CAR AND WE BOTH HAD INJURIES. I HAD BROKE MY RIBS AND PUNCTURED A LUNG. BUT I SO BAD WISH I COULD GIVE MY PAIN AWAY JUST TO HAVE HIM BACK. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR SON AND HIS LOVED ONES. I NEVER KNEW THE PAIN. I COULD NEVER THINK THIS WOULD HAPPEN, NOT TO HIM AND NOW HES GONE AND ALL WE HAVE ARE MEMORIES BUT ITS STILL NOT ENOUGH WE JUST WANT HIM HERE.
MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL. AND I HOPE YOU FIND PEACE BECAUSE I JUST SEEM LIKE I CANT. TAKE CARE LOVE YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU!!!
